Honesty 寫:Dogbert 寫:如果你到現在還只能用這種不講理的方式來討論,我建議你還是看看就好,不要來這裡自誤誤人了。
法友所說的到底有沒有理,只要雙方陳述清楚,所有的法友心中自然會有評斷,但是法友要不要來此討論是個人的自由與權利,並不是別人能決定的,別人也沒權力做任何干涉。 ......
末學身為版主對於討論區的宗旨,還是要做出適當的建議與指正,無論是誰,都有權利來此討論原始佛法,討論的方式只要不是違反版規,要以什麼方式與觀念去討論,都是被准許的,也是該被OBA所保障的。
相信本版主這樣的合理呼籲,大家都能認同才對。
我認為Dogbert版主做得很正確。 版規不是無中生有地建立起來的。Dogbert版主根據論壇上發生的情況不斷制定新版規,這是很合理的做法。 佛陀制定 戒律也是根據發生的事情逐漸制定戒律。
佛法討論的理想情況是完全按照八正道正語的要求來進行。雖然這種理想情況在現實中難於實現,但是對於反覆違背正語應該得到適當的制止,對於反覆勸告無效的進行停權也是合理的。
正語的一個重要特點就是以事實為根據,請看http://
www.accesstoinsight.org/ptf/dhamma/sacc ... index.html
Five keys to right speech
"Monks, a statement endowed with five factors is well-spoken, not ill-spoken. It is blameless & unfaulted by knowledgeable people. Which five?
"It is spoken at the right time.
It is spoken in truth. It is spoken affectionately. It is spoken beneficially. It is spoken with a mind of good-will."
— AN 5.198
The criteria for deciding what is worth saying
[1] "In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be unfactual, untrue, unbeneficial (or: not connected with the goal), unendearing & disagreeable to others, he does not say them.
[2] "In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be factual, true, unbeneficial, unendearing & disagreeable to others, he does not say them.
[3] "In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be factual, true, beneficial, but unendearing & disagreeable to others, he has a sense of the proper time for saying them.
[4] "In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be unfactual, untrue, unbeneficial, but endearing & agreeable to others, he does not say them.
[5] "In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be factual, true, unbeneficial, but endearing & agreeable to others, he does not say them.
[6] "In the case of words that the Tathagata knows to be factual, true, beneficial, and endearing & agreeable to others, he has a sense of the proper time for saying them. Why is that? Because the Tathagata has sympathy for living beings."
— MN 58
特別是批評別人的時候,這點非常重要, 要不然對方可能覺得被冤枉或者被譭謗等。佛陀本人為我們做出了很好的榜樣。他無論是批評犯有過失的弟子或和還是和對手辯論,總是要先讓對方肯定事實 之後才開始。